The General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Enoch Adeboye, has advised young men to prioritise spiritual discernment and practical values when choosing a life partner, warning against marrying based solely on physical appearance or social expectations.
Speaking during the May edition of the Holy Ghost Service, Adeboye cautioned that focusing only on beauty could lead to poor decisions.
“There are many demons that are very beautiful. If you marry because of beauty, you might choose wrongly. If it’s beauty alone that leads you into marriage, it’s a deep trap,” he said.
The cleric also stressed the importance of domestic competence and hospitality, advising men not to marry women who lack basic home management skills.
“Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook,” he said, adding that qualities such as care, moderation, and responsibility are essential in building a stable home.
Adeboye further warned against entering marriages that begin with financial pressure, particularly weddings that could push couples into debt.
“No matter how close you are to a wedding, if the plans will cost you everything you have and put you in debt, call it off,” he advised.
On lifestyle choices, he cautioned against excessive focus on outward appearance, including heavy makeup and artificial enhancements, urging men to look beyond physical presentation when choosing a partner.
The cleric emphasised that strong marriages are built on character, discipline, and spiritual alignment rather than superficial attraction.
Meanwhile, Adeboye also reiterated his earlier position that the outcome of Nigeria’s 2027 presidential election ultimately rests in God’s hands, noting that divine will supersedes human effort.
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